Reflection Of Life

I believe we all go through times when we just feel absolutely terrible about ourselves. There will be moments when we question ourself on our existence. Life could be so damned hard for each of us. Life is like a bumpy road. There's always ups and downs. There are always days when we get so lonely and depressed. When we cry. When the world has lost its colors. When the rest of the world is happy and we are not. There will be times when we lose all reasons for living; and problems will seem so hard that we wish there was no such thing as tomorrow.

A friend told me before, life is a lesson. There is an opportunity to learn from everything. And when you’re faced with a hard situation, think about what you can learn from it and how you can benefit from it.

Of course for goodness sakes, we do understand all the theories of life. But it is easier said than done. Thousands times we did reminds ourself not to look back on our past, but we just failed to do so. Sometimes, it's just like a magic casts, inconspiciously you had started to think on things which are unthinkable. WHY? WHY? WHY?

Pain Of Love

Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination, not just in the mind, It's a soul-hurt, a real gets inside you and rips you apart pain.

Yet, why do people still fall in love? When they had known that in the end they will get hurts... Why do they need to fall ? If the person they are falling for don't catch them. It really hurts when you do fall in love with the wrong person. It really hurts if they leave you crying. It really hurts if they will leave you torn into pieces. Is it wrong to give all that you are to that person? Is it wrong to beg someone to love you back? They say if you love someone, set them free. But how can you set them free if the person you're willing to let go means the whole world to you. What is the most painful thing to do in loving someone? Let go of the one you really love or loving someone who never loves you back. It looks simple yet complicated. Love is so unfair. Love is full of complications. Love is full of mysteries. Love is full of sufferings...

True Love ?

Is there such a thing as "true love?" The reason I ask is that my observations of the world today indicate that there are more people getting divorced, getting cheated on, and breaking up than there are happy couples that are in love and stay in love. I mean, are humans mentally and physically capable of staying in love with someone and being faithful to each other?

As age draws near, the wonder of love and happiness draws nearer. Sometimes I catch myself in this philosophical delusion. However, more times than not I’m just lonely. What a terrible thing to say even if it is true. When I am lost in this world of emotions, or lack thereof, the question I ask myself is—is there such a thing as true love? A soul mate? It’s a depressing thought, actually, because if there is, then the chances of us all being with the wrong person are astronomically profound.

Just as Eve was created for Adam, is there some one person for each of us?

Life and Death....

Why are we here in this world? Is there life after death? What is life and death then? Does this sound like a strange question to you? Of course we all know what is meant by the word "life" and "death", but how would you define it? Are we primarily a physical beings or spiritual beings?

See, that's the amusement of human being. We live everyday for life. Yet, we don't even know what's life really denote Are we live for life or life for live???

As from dictionary, LIFE is define as a living things. DEATH in normal stages, the heart stop pumping and respirations ceases. When our bodies various organs lack of oxygen, it will stop functioning. The brain, when starved of oxygen will begins to cease to register activity. Then, death occurs. So, the difference between being alive and being death is activity in the brain. We are our brain.

So, if that's all we are, then to answer the question "is there life after death?", the answer would be a big NO. The real question then is, is that all we are???

Of all the world's religions, we are teach to have a soul. What's soul then? How does it look like? Assuming we do possess a soul, where does it goes when we die? I know what your thinking, obviously it goes heaven. So what and where is heaven?? Apparently it isn't a 'real' place up in the sky somewhere, it is a spiritual place, it has to be if the soul can go there and we can't. What does it do when it gets there? Is it the end of our journey, or the beginning? This is more to do with a belief in God.

Ultimately though, being a matter of faith, and faith alone, you either believe it or you don't. There is not a single shred of proof that we possess a soul. One thing however is for certain, we are all going to die one day.